When Friends Turn Into Foes

There’s always that one “friend” who eventually transforms into a dreaded enemy and I’m not talking about mere “frenemies” — Oh no, this one’s much worse. This one shows inexcusable behavior and ingratitude.

It all begins with some silent treatment and as time passes by, that ex friend gets colder and before you know it, your friendship is over. Poof! Every good deed you’ve ever done, every memory you had with that person all goes down the drain.

It’s sad losing a friend, it’s even worse when that friend turns into a foe. Your well-kept secrets will suddenly fly out the window. If you’re unlucky, you’ll be lashed out with harsh words and heart-breaking sentiments.

When you look back and remember the good times, you’ll wonder how it got to this, and all you can do is give out a loud sigh and accept that it’s a part of life.

Losing a friend is tragic but you have to keep in mind that sometimes it’s for the best. In the end, you won’t have any other options but to accept things as they are and just leave it that way.


Author: Sassy

Country girl with a gypsy soul, living life the unconventional way.

18 thoughts on “When Friends Turn Into Foes”

  1. Its always sad losing a Best friend. Its almost like a break-up somehow. Something good I noticed that usually comes out of such situations is that you definitely become wiser in picking friends. Then for the memories of good times……… Well that’s something you just have to live with.


  2. I have my new blog friends, but outside of that I have 3 great friends, and they are 30 year long friends. So I think Alistair and Rosy are right. Do not fret over this! – Love – Resa


    1. Thank you my dear Resa, yep! You guys have a point. I should not worry too much about this, I have other friends who are more worthy of my trust.


  3. I agree with Rosy. had they been a real friend, they would have walked away for a bit and then come back. That was a “user” friend. Only there for what they could have and then when you were of no further use ,.. that’s it. You have other friends who are real


    1. Yes, it’s so sad. I can’t believe she’d just turn her back like that. Oh well, better put an end to it rather than endure the ingratitude. Enough is enough.


  4. Sadly…That was not a friend to begin with… 😦
    I say forget her…don’t look back & move on. Anything you did or shared was not wasted time on your part. Because you were in it for what you thought it was…a true friendship.


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